Which is why I was planning on switching from pole beans to bush beans. *smiles* But corn is definitely not an option for me anymore. Thanks for the help, though. Always appreciate it.
And today the last of the squash gave way to mildew, after a heroic fight with the vine borers. Looks like I can't three sisters it anymore, and that makes me sad. I've had a three sisters garden every place I've lived! But I'd like to stay organic if possible, and that just doesn't seem to be an option with squash and corn. My older sister offered to plant twice as many for me. I love my sisters.
Gardening was very important to us, growing up. Our mother encouraged it by never shouting at us when we made mistakes, but lovingly correcting us, and praising us effusively when we did well. It's become such a bonding thing, and so associated with happiness for us, that we garden over the phone with one another so that we can still get some of our "sister" time.
One of my sisters lives in military quarters and regularly sneaks vegetables in beds that are supposed to be purely ornamental. When I lived in apartments, I found container squash, corn, and beans so that I could grow them symbolically on my balcony. My little sister works fifty hour weeks and has an infant, and she still has huge vegetable gardens.
Even if they just eat now, trust me, teaching them to garden together will keep them close. My mom is still stunned by how committed we are. She's also a little stunned by how close we are.