What she means, "wearing", is that year in and year out, from August thru November we are constantly dreading and then monitoring and finally agonizing
over if these hurricanes will come INCREASINGLY CLOSER to our homes.
Everybody that knows hurricanes knows that it takes a direct hit, by an or above CAT II to wipe you out. CAT I will might do it if you are 1 foot above sea level like me.
That being said, many places in the Bahamas and Cuba are struck numerous times a year, and you do have ample warning time , for it to "wear" on you.