http://www.nypost.com/p/news/local/queens/ground_zeros_OUrlQ6Ap5qJQx3TnQxQBgJ#ixzz1Th7AVM1EI perceive a dilemma:
No lawyer, no settlement. My wife and I had a situation where we sent a legal document ourselves (perfectly legal)--and it was simply ignored--until we had a lawyer send the same notice.
But legal fees are hard to control, especially when legal fees are generally not agreed-to up-front.
Sometimes they're not agreed to at all. One horror story I heard about while studying financial planning was of a man whose mother died, and left her house to him. It was a modest house but within the housing-bubble zone of New England; it was worth around $400K or so.
The estate went into probate because she had not done anything to try to avoid that.
He received a check for something like $13, several years later. The lawyer assigned to the case by the judge kept billing until the entire estate was used up.
Something similar happened when Elvis Presley died. Not knowing any better, he left a highly detailed will, but as a result, his estate went through probate, and the probate court charged his estate 75% of the value of his estate.